Choosing a life partner is too important to 'leave it to chance'
It has never ceased to amaze me that people have no difficulty in understanding the benefits of planning most aspects of their lives – studies, career, hobbies, finances, even shopping. And yet, when it comes to one of the most important decisions they will ever make in life, that of choosing a life partner, it is usually left entirely to chance.
For some reason people seem to think that the best way to find someone with whom to share a large portion of their life is to ‘leave it to destiny’. ‘What will be, will be’ is a phrase that is often associated with the search for that special someone.
However, in my opinion (and experience) if you rely on ‘destiny’ to decide your fate for you, the results may not be altogether satisfactory.
If you are of the opinion that one happy day you will ‘just by chance’ bump into the man of your dreams as you wait in line at the supermarket or that if you hang around enough bars and clubs that he will magically appear by your side, well, I’m sorry to say that the chances of that happening are pretty slim.
In your search for the love of your life surely it makes more sense to know what sort of guy you are looking for, know where to find him, know how to get him and know how to keep him once you have got him?
Putting a strategy in place for finding love does not rule out the opportunity for the big romance. In fact, the quicker you can find your guy, the more time you will have to be as romantic as you like with him. Improve your love life today by using the tips in this book and hopefully you won’t have to kiss too many frogs before finding your prince.
Wishing you every success in your dating adventure!